Now, you might need to swallow hard and brace up for this one. The simple answer is: You are.
I hate to have to bring this up. But until you see this it will be hard for you to lose the weight that you need to lose.
Now, there are ways to look at responsibility. Some people think responsibility but they substitute blame.
Well, this is not a matter of blaming anyone. It is just a simple, unemotional, straght-ahead look at the situation.
Someone has made the decisions in your life that have gotten you to where you are. The good things that you have done and accomplished were because you did them. And the other things, the ones that were not so good, were accomplished by you as well. It goes both ways.
So, this idea that you are the one that got you into the shape that you are in might be a little discouraging to think about, until you realize one thing: And that is that since you are the one that got you into it, you can also get yourself out of it.
And until you see clearly see this, you will continue to look for:
See, those are false solutions. You wouldn't be looking for false solutions if you were really facing the problem.
If you are over your ideal weight and unhappy about it, it is because:
Until you see this you won't be able to get control. You'll keep looking for the magic.
But you know what? That is not going to happen. There is no magic formula. There is no miracle obesity solution.
There is no way for you to lose weight and keep it off, and be healthy, without you doing the work.
The only one that can solve it for you is you. That's just the way it is.
Now, you shouldn't blame yourself. There is no blame here. It is just a simple statement of the truth. Knowing the truth and blaming yourself for it are two different things.
Blaming yourself is just a kind of self-hate. And where does that get you? Nowhere. You need to be kind to yourself. You are probably too hard on yourself already.
But when you know the truth and face the truth that is another thing entirely. Because it opens up the door to a real solution, so you can finally solve the problem of your weight.
First you say, "this is the shape I have gotten myself into, and now I am going to take responsibility for myself."
And when you do that you can take whatever action is needed and get results.
This is an opportunity to look at the problem directly and see what you have to do to solve it.
Figure out where you are now. See how you got there. And then to figure out what you need to do to make things better.
What could be more hopeful than that?
Now, where do you find this information? The best source is a book that I wrote to help you lose weight and keep it off.
Your next step is to get a copy of the book, Dr. Dan's Super Weight Loss Plan. It has everything you need in an effective weight loss plan to get to your goal weight and stay there.
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